Hey help please!!!!!

hi am new to this but i realy need help im gettin married on the 12th july and im stressed already my fella doesnt agree with me on anything...i have so much family and wer close so its hard not to invite some but my fellas family wont travel from grimsby to blackburn so there is plenty of rrom for mine....also i have chose to have 5 bridesmaids and my twin nieces as flower girls and hes making me pay for the dresses has he doesnt agree with me on having so many.......please help....thank you sarah xxxx

Hey help please!!!!

You need to sit down and talk things through with him. It is both your day and his and he must not feel railroaded or you feel that everything is on your shoulders.

You need to make joint decisions and be happy with them.

If you are on a tight budget go to BHS for bridesmaids dresses and flower girls. They have a sale on at moment and I have saved over £30.

Ebay is also good for bargains. Got tiaras for £5.50 each.

Hope this is of some help to you.

Best wishes.

Fee

Decisions, decisions...

There's no point in arguing about things for the special day. It should be an equal balance between his decisions and your decisions. You must agree with some of the decisions he chooses and he should do the same for you. It is as feefee23 said, it is both your's and his day, so you must choose between you. Either way, the main fact is that you're gettin married, so enjoy your day no matter what you or he chooses to do. Have fun = D