I've been engaged for 2 1/2 years

I've been engaged for about 2 1/2 years I want a big wedding but we don't have the money for the wedding I want but I want to get married soon shoud I just go I the court house and have a big rep.

Ive been engaged for 2 1/2 years

Hi

I would definitely go for the wedding you want. If not you may regret it and not be able to do it ever.

My first wedding was organised for me and I did not have much choice in anything. I did regret that, however, I am lucky as I now have found my soulmate and have a second chance.

Life has been tough for us and yes we are on a budget, but we have decided no matter what we will do this our way, with what we want and how we want it. Nothing is going to stop us.

I am lucky I have been given a wedding dress designer otherwise I was looking on ebay at dresses in the region of £50.00.

I have found some bargains. Wedding shoes £14.00. Tiara £5.50. Bouquet under £30.00. These are all brand new so as you can see I have been fruitful in my search for what I wanted.

We decided to get married in November as we could get a discount at the hotel.

If you ask some suppliers they will give you a discount. Others you just have to look out for sales. BHS have some wonderful bargains. We managed to save over £30 on waistcoats alone.

Best wishes with whatever you decide.

Fee

Decide

You should have the wedding you want. Do you know anyone with a big garden? or a local hall? these places can accommodate a large amount of people, using catering (this can work out cheaper). Why not make it a summer wedding with a BBQ, this also works, lots of salad, punch etc. A humanist can perform the wedding anywere and is normally cheaper than a registrar.

Whatever you decide please make sure you have the wedding you want or you will always regret it! I know people that do. Let me know if you want any help.
Kerry

Hi

2 1/2 years thats nice, i am engaged myself i am so poor lol but i will exspect to get married in 2 or three yrs cuz i am saving soon. why dont you talk to your partner and see what he wants to becasue he could have ideas too and after all its his day too. A wedding takes a long time to plan some take a yr if you put your heads to geather am sure you will think of somthing .