Im 13, i regret having sex and maybe pregnant- help!!

hello, im 13 had sex for my first time and maybe pregnant now, ive had belly pains on and off for a bit now and also feeling dizzy and sick, im really scared to tell my dad, as my mom passed away when i was 7. i told my dads girlfriend and shes helping me the best she can she isnt gona tell me dad unless i want her to im really scared and shocked if i am, we did use protection but we found out at the end it split, what should i do?!

Sorry,

yerr sorry havent been on for a while, had a lot to think about.. we did the test.
its possative and got an appotionment with the doctor in a couple of days time
my dad and his girlfriend have split up for seprate reasons but are still good mates so i still see her.

might not be on here as much as i was before, as im currentley living at my boyfriend home with his mom and dad as they want to be supportive to me- my dad get on well with his parents are is being supportive but was very shocked with the news as suspected; im going on a couple of days break with his mom and dad and him soo ill speak to you soon
becca
xx

Thanks,

i know i was so daft for having sex, its been on my mind all the time since that day- at the time i just nothing of it, but now im just really scared of what will happen. my dads girlfriends really supportive and said if i dont come on my period( which is due 7th september- the day i got back to school!) she will get me checked and everything, im just so young if i was to be pregnant and get a lot of negative things said about me, as its the six weeks holiday im not at school and moving to another school i think it would look a little wrong to go ask about things on my first day or something! i have said to my boyfriend theres a chance i could be pregnant and he was like oh okay then well get it sorted, i was a bit shocked because thats just so laid back but i bet he was thinking a lot more things in his head. i had to find somewhere to let it out i couldnt keep it bottled it im glad youve replyed and helped mee

thankss xx

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hello,
ye im okay thanks had a good weekend spoke to my boyfriend about things and stuff
are you okay?

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i know, that was my huge mistake, regret it so bad- i know i thort it was a bit weird, hes a bit weird about it all atm, which is understanable. hes just come 15. im okay i spose just a bit scared and worried about it all, if i was pregnant i honestley wouldnt know what to do with 'it'. i dont think i could bring myself to have an abortion but, im just really to young arent i. i hope my dads sorta cool about it, well not cool but just not go really mad because it would just make the whole situation worse in my eyes i think as there would just be more stress between us all!


becca x

Well

Its good that you have some support. Get her to get you a pregnancy test, and if it comes up positive, then I think you will have to tell your dad. One step at a time, sometimes when you are scared of something, or think something, you can start to feel the signs, ive thought i was pregnant a lot before i was and thought i felt the signs so dont worry yet. But get a test as soon as possible.

Thanks for replying

thanks again, my dads girlfriends said as im due on the 7th of september if i dont come on my period she'll get me one then see what happends from then on, im scared to like tell my dad as he could loose all trust in me and maybe take it the wrong way and tell my whole family and kick me out the house or something ''/ i have been having regular stomach pains alot i just think nothing of it. once ive done the test and stuff if i havent come on, ill tell you the news!

thanks x

Any update?

Are you pregnant beccajaide? If so, what have you decided to do?

If not, I bet it's sighs of relief all round.

Best of luck, whatever the outcome xx