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I'm pregnant and confused :s

I'm nearly 19 years old pregnant for the 2nd time and am so confused.
with my 1st pregnancy i had a miscarriage at 6weeks so i didn't have much time to think about wheather i would want a baby, thi time im pregnant am currently unemployed though my partner works full time. we live in our own house but it is currently owned by his parents.
i would really like a baby and have always wanted to it's just i cant imagine his parents being to supportive, although mine would be, and the fact that i dont work and i dont think we could really afford a child on only 1 income, i dont know if i would be entitled to anything?
the only thing that is putting me off is the financial situation
please help what should i do?

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Hey

how far gone are you?

you and your boyfriend need to discuss what you want to do, how you will suport yourselves as well as your child.
Whats stopping you getting a job now? i recently started my job im 21 weeks pregnant its hard but im doing it for my son i want him and myself (+ partner) to live comfortably, if you work you will also get maturnity leave for 26 weeks.

if its only the financial situation thats putting you off change your situation.

im so glad im working but at 5 months gone getting a job was not easy, i wish i had known before i left my other job.

Good luck

Nic 21 weeks xxx

Hii

im only 5/6weeks pregnant,

i've tried to talk to him but he seems cold about the situation and isn't really telling me about how he feels which is making it hard to want to talk to him.
I have just been accepted to start a job soon, which would really help my financial situation but it is only a temp contract so i wouldn't be entitled to maternity leave, but i could save to help with short trem future.

so the fact that i have just been offered a job has helped, i just now need to know how he feels, and i need him to open up to me.

thank you for your help it is much appreciated

xxx

Hey

just like to add if you speak to your job centre you may be entitled to maternity allowance, which is just like maternity leave only paid by the jobcentre.

You really should talk to him asap. He needs to open up, it may be hard for him but he hasnt got the baby in his belly. Tell him what you want and get some feedback.

Good luck xxxxxxx



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