Help. should i call it a day

i need advice please. il give i little background first.
i have been with m partner for 6 yrs now, i have a 11 yr old from a past relationship and a 3 yr old and 1 20 week old,
for some time now me and my parnter have not been getting on and arguing,
he shows me no affection gives no romance no complimemts no help or support,
many of the aruments are cos of these so he knows i would like to feel like a girlfriend not a slave.
but again 2 weeks ago we had another bad argument.
since then i have done alot of thinking
and now realise i not botherd if i get none of this from him the other day he went to give me a kiss bye and i didnt want one and last night he tried to cuddle me in bed. and could not stand the thought of him nr me.
i think this all means that i dont love him anymoire,
i have told him this today and once again he has not said anything back to me about it.
somw advice would be great please

babyluv1982 xxx

Go with your gut instint!!!!

babyluv 1982 all i know is that i was once where you are and you have to do whats best for you,,,, and think of the kids they must be feeling the vibes you have to make yourself happy before you make anyone else happy take some time out and ask him to leave for a while ,,,,,so you can work out what you rearly feel,,,,,,it will get better

Its gonna be ok

When you see these old couples that have been married for 60 years.Do you honestly think they've never had an arguement,fight,frying pan accross the head etc?
Just stick with it,your a family,ups and downs are gonna happen.The grass isnt greener on the other side.
Grow old together,have your family holidays,play the santa and enjoy.
No you havnt fell out of love,your just feeling very taken for granted and maybe you feel in a rut.You can work this out.

"help. should i call it a day"

i know that feeling when i split from my partner of 9 years i felt the same, we have 1 child together and i have two children from a previous relationship and I went through a period were the site of him made me sick the thought of him touching me made me sick I didn't want him to kiss me and etc etc etc. i finally ended my relationship with him because i knew that deep with in me i didn't want to be with him and i tried to love him because we had a son together but for me that was just was not enough.

Feeling unloved

i have the same problem with my man. the worse thing is he only lives down the road . i have two children from a past relationship and we have a year old son and another one on th way. i kept telling him he needed to do more and he just sits there saying nothing or agreeing and doing nothing about it. i had no choice but to end it and it has been hard not because i miss him but that he is living near me. i cant have a proper talk with him as i have to do all the talking so its come to the point where i am too tired to want to do anything about it. take some time out from each other and see if it helps, u will b able to think properley about the situation that u r in.