Feel like crying after these horrendous arguments!!!! can u help?

Hi girls and guys

well im new to this part of the forum my name is Natalia well Nat is fine i live with my fiance and we have been together 2 yrs this October.....cut a very long story short

we are both bright bubbly outgoing ppl bit of a clash when it comes to falling out as we r never happy medium always one extreem or the other and its really hurting me

we argue over ridiculous things and the arguments juts get worse and worse and i end up thinking fuk this ... im gunna leave but i jst cant leave cos i know he doesnt mean it and to be fair i am nasty back but now this is getting ridiculous!!! its happening all the time and its really blown way out of proportion cos he niggles at all the little things that to me r just fukin stupid!!!!!! i stay calm and he just shouts at me all the time and calls me all the names under the sun he will then say sorry and i ignore him and he starts all over again!! WTF?? can any1 help this is stressing me out badly!!!!

and im due to be married and have a family with him??!!!

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXthanks a very sad nat

Feel like crying after these horrendous arguments!!!! can u help?"

maybe you guys should get some counselling before you go through with getting married it is obvious that you guys have some underlying issues that you need to sort out, respect for each others feeling s would be number one on the list. I think if you guys both love each other and are going to take your relationship to the next level then you need to get all the hard feeling s you have towards each other on the table and then work on healing the wound.

Thanx

yer i know thank you kez it just seems he never listens and then we just bite each others heads off and we adore each other so much but i cant get married or even think about havin babies until he has grown up and sorted his problems out!!!

we will def chat im prepared to work on it i spsoe everyone argues but not to this extreme he did say sorry today and admitted he was wrong!!! now there is a first lol

thanx for ure reply tho XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX