Big mistake

i've been having an online relationship with a British woman for ten months and I know she loves me dearly as I do her. She brought me back to life when i had been some years in a very bad way and wanted out of my marriage. Yesterday my wife found some email she had sent to me and threatened to stop me having my daughter in my life if I didn't stop all contact with my British lady. I was panicked and I told my wife I didn't want to leave her and my child. She made me call my lady and tell her I had lied and didn't love her while my wife listened. I know she must think I am every kind of cad because this and I know I am a bit of a coward but if I leave my wife she will take every cent I have and not let me see my daughter. But I don't want to lose my Lady. She is the only thing that makes me want to stay alive. My wife is still fat and bitchy and now she has something to really beat me with. I can't think of how my life will be now. Can any ladies out there tell me if they would take me back after what I did? if I mail her she won't answer and I don't want to open wounds if there is no chance.

Get rid of the wife

it sounds like she`s a right ... so just ask her to leave. You will be able to see your daughter as she hasn`t reasons good enough to restrain you child from you. The fact that she`s bullying you saying oh I`l take your kid away PROVES that this woman is an idiot and any more time spent with her will be a waste.

She clearly makes you depressed, worsens your health...In life we need to change the things that make us depressed and replace them with positive ones.

What`s yours?

I am no lady

You need to wise up here you are talking about a lady on line that you have never met and risking everything you have on this. You should no better because if this was a close friend telling you this story you would tell him to get on with his life?

Do not fall for the charms of the internet. However nice this lady is she be nothing like her picture or her character on meeting her. Before you do anything sort things out with your wife. You are lucky she has not thrown you out, via e mail you have screwed with peoples lifes and all you seem to be worried about is Miss UK.

Get over yourself and be a man and look at the way your acting, you are not a teenager so do not act like one?

I guess you did not wish for a reply like this.