I need help

i met the a lovely man at the age of 17 and fall in love with him and now im 22 and broke up with him 2months ago for a guy that i work with and fancied for 4yrs.. what happend was that me and my partner started arguing aloot and for the past yr we werent gettin along so my our relationship was a bit distant... as im yhe last child in the family and my mother had me when she was 45yrs old, my mum and dad never showed me any love and i was left to grow up by myself really and as for my partner is a type of person and loved me alot but didnt know how to show it and that used to get me down and we had alot of arguments about it, he always said he would change but he never did... all i wanted from him to give me huge from time to time... any ways when i statred working 4yrs ago there was this guy that was giving me alot of attention but nothing never happend between us as i would never cheat anyways 2months ago i couldnt take my the argung with my parner any more so i said we should have a break... i told the guy that i really like 4 yrs at work wot was goin on and after few days of us talking to each other he told me how much he liked me and that he always wanted to be with me but because i had a bf he didnt want to tell me how he felt about me " by the way he is going out with some one for 2ys now"
any ways i told him how i feel about him and decided to meet. the next day we met and just talked about how much we wanted each other and kissed.. i felt really bad as he was going out with someone at the time. anyways i left my partner of 6yrs and after few weeks he left his partner but said we shouldnt jump in a relationship and should take things slow and i said yeah fine... he is still living with his ex coz she needs to find somewhere to live first... anyways the thing is that he never makes any efforts to meet me any more or even phone me... we used to talk on the phone everynite now we harldy talk... he will only send me a txt once a day and the only time he want to meet is when i say wot is going on with us and how i cant tale the waiting nusiness anymore!!! thats once a week... i fell like im have lost everythin i had with my partner for some that cant even be botherd to meet.... i have been crying my self to sleep as im so confuesd about the actions of the new guy and he always tells me he loves me...

can some one plz tell me whats going on or what i should do...

Time to say 'goodbye'

I fear you are being messed about and your works bf has just taken advantage of you. Remember you must have told him about the attention you seek and the reasons. Like so many he has taken advantage of you, if he was keen to be with you he would have told his gf to 'go'.

You deserve much better than thisand it is clear your requirements are not that hard to give. Move on us men will tell you all you want to hear at times to be intimate with you and maybe on a good day we mean some of it?

I think you have answered your own concerns and maybe it is time to take time out from relationships as all of what has happened will have made you very vulnerable and you may think you tell a good bf at times but sdaly we never know anyone as well as we think?

Lastly you must go back to your mother and father and tell them what you have told all odf us. I am sure you are a lovely person the honesty comes out in what you say. You must resolve issues with your parents before it is to late. They may not have been able to give you love more likely they thought that your siblings would provide it. Please for me and you in the end talk to them and tell them about how you feel.

If you do not do this then I fear you may have problems with your relationships because however good they are going to be there will always be nagging doubts and insecurities. Speak to Mum and Dad today, they do love you as will a future partner on your terms?