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Confused.com!!!any advice would be grateful!

I started seeing my boyfriend in January of this year.He was amazing at first, did all the right things, was attentive and loving and we eventually got into a loving relationship. After 3 months of being together he had to go back to work and was away for 12 weeks. I stayed faithful during this time and missed him like crazy. 3 months later we took a holiday together, there were a few ups and downs but nothing major. we spent a lot of time together over the last few months and i was considering asking him to move him but was worried by the reaction and also of being rejected or pushing him away. He then went away again for 3 weeks to work. Things were great on his return but since moving into a different place he has changed and become distant. Its ended up with him ending the relationship in a rage in the pub in front of everyone last week and also telling me he did not love me. He accused me of kicking off when I did not and it was him who was giving off vibes as though he didnt want me there. We had a good talk 2 days later and he admited he would have liked to move in with me THEN he said. I opened my heart to him and told him exactly how I felt and I thought negative tension had built due to us not communicating creating a bad atmosphere between us. Although he has agreed to have a break for a few days and have a think if this is what he wants I am very confused myself. I thought my bf had more respect for me than to end things the way he did and also thought he may be remorseful for the things he said whether he meant them or not. Im confused as to why it has come to this things were goin great until about 3 weeks ago. I also have mixed feelings now due to seeing a side I hadnt seen before when he ended it. Please help, I love him and am very confused as to why he has behaved this way!!! thanks xx

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Tough situation!

This is either a case of mixed signals or he has STRAYED! He sounds like he has a guilty conscience about SOMETHING! He is hiding something and guilt is eating away at him eg. hence this sudden "pushing you away". He is trying to put you at fault, like you are to blame, hence my suspicion that he has done SOMETHING and now feels guilty about it. Men are cowards and cowards never own up, so unfortunately it sounds like you are going to playing "cat & mouse" for awhile, and even then, men rarely admit when they are in the wrong, even when they know that they are in the wrong!
He is HIDING SOMETHING! End of.

He has either cheated on you or has feelings for you have changed and he is too cowardly to tell you the truth.

I don't like being so blunt, but you need to hear it from someone, babe x x



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