Help! i need advice on threesomes in a relationship

I need some advise as this is not really something i feel i can discuss with even my closest friend.
I have been seeing this new guy now for 2 months. Everything seems to be going well and its great as we are very loving and affectionate towards each other but he keeps mentioning that he would like to have a threesome with me and another girl. This is something that i have never done but I am willing to try most things as im quite open minded. He has done all this stuff before and he has also been to swingers parties. I am concerned as i do not know how this will effect our relationship. I have just come out of a 4 year marriage and now going through divorce as a result of my husband being unfaithful so i am a bit fagile at the moment. I am sure that he does have feelings for me but i don`t want him to use me as only a sex object. I quite like the idea of a threesome with my boyfiend and another man as this appeals to me more than another woman, and he is up for that as well. But i find it hard to see how he can have feelings for me if he wants to share me with another man and allow me to see him with another woman which may upset me. Basically i am trying to find out if you can have a loving and trusting realtionship with your boyfriend and get up to this stuff at the same time.
I hope this makes sense
xx

3-some

Hi

i've been on both ends of a threesome - so to speak - both as 'the other woman' and as 'the girlfriend' and is some ways as both at the same time as i had a 3-way relationship for quite a while - and 3 somes are great fun, BUT i have to say you should only do this if you are happy that your boyfriend/girlfriend is sleeping with somebody else, especially if it is directly in front of you. i was better at being the other woman than the girlfriend - in fact it only happened once with my own boyfriend and i walked out halfway through!

Same stuff

Hi darling. I am going through the same stuff really, apart frm me and my boyfriend havent done this before and we'd be doing it with a girl. I really want to because i know that i will enjoy it and in a weird way it will turn me on seeing my fella with another girl. BUT yes there is another side that i might get really jelouse and it could split us up. Men find it more easy in sex, just to concentrate on the sex and nothing else, they detach themselves, thats what i think yours is doing.Its not personal that he wants to share you.I think it will just turn him on alot!
But you have only know him for two months, i dont think that is that long at all and you are so fagile at the moment, i think you should give it some time to heal from your recent past, and you never know he might just be using you as a bit of fun. And if he is using you as a bit of fun, he really shouldnt be using u at this stage in your life.

Threesomes

Hi
i am in a loving relationship and yes me and my partner do have threesomes. I am a bisexual woman in her mid 20's so i like the fact that my partner and i are able to sleep with other women together without either one of us getting jelous.
I will say that you can not be the insecure type to do this though and you must have complete faith in your partner otherwise it will tear your relationship apart.
Only you can decide if your relationship can handle this and if you yourself are ok about doing it.
Hope that help
Michelle

My opinion...

myself i wouldnt.....purely because im a girl who thinks that a relationship is for 2 people and as they say 3s a crowd!
ur bf could get very jealous and insecure after it, it could cause constant arguments and you could end up splitting up.how would you ever trust each other again? easy to say now but what if he slept with a woman after your 3 sum and said 'well you slept with another man?' how would you trust him when he goes out etc?
i wouldnt but thats just my opinion
HTH