Threesome

My partner of 2 years and i want to have a threesome, i really want to, but i would say i am a very jelouse and insecure person too.
I just wanted to know has anyone ever had a threesome with there partner and whilst doing it got really jelouse and found it unconfortable or maybe after its all happened, felt that way. I just know in the past ive been terrible and jelouse and it had nearly split us up. I just hope thats all in the past now, coz in a way i have learnt alot.
Just really want to know if anyone else can relate to me,(in the way they are in realationships, u know all jelouse and questioning their partner and that). I just know,that if me and my partner have a repeat of the way i have behaved before we might end. But also on the other end i could just get over it he,he.
Thanks!xxxxxxxxxx

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I don't thik this is a good idea what if you do it and regret it, and you said it yourself you are a very jealous person so how will this help your relationship it might just end up hurting it, I think you should give this some clear thought before you do anything that might jeapordize something that is obviously going good for you. I think you should think long and hard about this one.

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So what decision have you come too regarding this threesome, I agree with the other poster that you have to have a really strong relationship in order to do this I myself have never had a threesome and I don't think I could, but to each there own good luck in making this decision.

Worked for us

Before we got married we did the mmf and ffm and because we truly trusted and loved each other we enjoyed it ,but you must have a good solid relationship and trust each other

Couldn't do it

I'm as jealous as hell and I know I wouldn't be able to cope with watching the man I love "giving his all" to someone else. I wouldn't like him being inside me afer he'd been inside her.

Think carefully!

Hi Louise,

My advice would be to 'listen to your heart'. It's obvious that you have some insecurities and this is such a big step to take. Don't be pressured into anything either.

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I had a threesome. It was okay. I just got a bit paranoid of what I looked like when the third person's eyes were on me.

Wouldn't do it again, but don't totally regret doing it.

Not always a good idea

I have a friend who was happily married for 7 years, she decided to do a threesome with her husband and another girl as a "birthday treat" for him (he'd always made it clear it was something he would like to do one day)... anyway since it happened, my friend can't have sex with her husband without picturing him doing the other girl... it's basically ruined her marriage. I know this isn't going to be the case for everyone but since you say you're very jealous, I can imagine you'll find it difficult to forget the image of the man you love making love to someone else.

I agree

i agree with the other person who replied, if u love the guy u with and are a jealous person u will not be stable enough to do this. I have never done this myself but my best friend said she had and it wasnt really good and i dont really want to to b honest im happy with my man and i dont need another. But like i said if u are a jealous person a 3some is deffinatly not the thing for you.

Sorry if its not what u wanted to hear but hope i helped deex

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After reading what you have written.

Stay away from them. You are not stable enough in yourself to do that sort of thing.

Sorry

Only you can know

hi, just read your post, I think you should wait personally, my husband and I have delved into the threesome thing with other men and found it to be lots of fun tho i was hesitant at first, I think u need to be very very sure in your self and your relationship or this will only destroy you both. hope it helps

Jess xxx