Threesomes.....?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years we are a very strong couple and have been through a lot together. We have both expressed interest in having a threesome (with another woman) we would prefer it to be with a stranger as my best friend (who is a bit unstable emotionally) came onto me one night and it made things a bit wierd between us for a while but then we didn't know whether this would be safe from the perspective of things such as sexual health

I would be really grateful to hear from anyone who has had a threesome to know if we would be better off with a friend or a stranger, how best to ensure our sexual health as we have only ever had sex with each other (we know we dont have anything) short of attending a GUM clinic together with our said girl (which is a bit of an odd situation to put someone in really)

The first threesome

My husband is in a profession where he was in contact with refugees from Bosnia, and had a teenaged Bosnian girl as an interpreter. She was (and is) very attractive, and we soon warmed to each other. One weekend when he was away she stayed with me, and at 26 I was seduced, deliciously and expertly, by a 17 year old girl! My first experience with a woman, I came and came. When he came back, I told him, he got horny, wanted all the details, and then shagged me senseless. That evening they both came back from working, we had a glass or two of wine,and went to bed. The sight of her sitting on him having energetic sex turned me on and I joined in. It lasted about 6 months, then she found a guy who wanted her to be faithful, and she was.

For justwilliam

Hi this message is for justwilliam!

hey, hope your cool! that sounds really good! good for you. Hope you dont mind if i ask.
where you ever worried (as it was going on for such along time)that your husband may start to get attached to this girl? or did you ever get jelouse that (i dont know)but that if she was better in bed or anything like that? Just that it was going on for a while, you had time to think about things.Soz if im getting a bit personal!xxx

That sounds amazing!lol

hey, hope your cool! that sounds really good! good for you. Hope you dont mind if i ask.
where you ever worried (as it was going on for such along time)that your husband may start to get attached to this girl? or did you ever get jelouse that (i dont know)but that if she was better in bed or anything like that? Just that it was going on for a while, you had time to think about things.Soz if im getting a bit personal!xxx

Go for it!

im a psychologist and sex therapist...ive had threesomes since i was a teen (with two boys or men) and ive counseled hundreds of teen girls and women in this...you can see my post in the sex and relationships forum..i recommend it especially with two men and a woman....its really awful how men are trained to suppress their natural desires...and this comes out when women have a relationship with a bf or husband and one of her lovers...try it and you will be amazed at how good it is...encourage your bf and tell him what turns you on...also if you want another girl its ok but two guys is the best!!!!!
victoria

Toughy

I have had threesomes in two different relationships. The first was my b/f and her bed buddy. He and I ended up together and in love. She and I ended up not friends anymore.
The second was with another boyfriend and a girl I worked with. It was okay. No one had any consequences with with it.
My hubby has fantasied about threesomes but I am afraid of doing one with him or I just don't want to.
So different people and different relationships produce different outcomes.
If I were you, if you both have a strong relationship with each other then pick the person together. it shouldn't be anyone too close to either of you. Have fun and good luck!
As far as health make sure to use plenty of protection.

Re:

My boyfriend of 4 years and I were also planning the same thing and from what I have been reading, it is not wise to do it in a relationship but we both discussed it and agreed it would be ok to have it with a stranger girl.

We even looked for some girls online but didn't find a match.
Not I got pregnant, so I guess we won't be doing it any time soon.

Good luck and have fun!!!!

**Jenny**
www.steadyhealth.com

Ummm..... better off doin it wit a stranger

if ur best friend were to be in the mix wit u nd ur boo, den itz not worth it, datz ur main man, nd if a best friend cumz in between den, there really no tur friend!!!!