Hubby wants me to have sex with other men

Hello im late 30s and still have my sex drive ,but hubby doesnt he is overweight and works hard and as a result is normally to tired . We have spoken about the problem and he has told me that he doesnt mind being a cuckold type hubby ,he has told me that if I want to I can go out and sleep with other men as long as it doesnt get serious .He assures me it isnt a trap so he can go of with other women and to be honest I believe him when he says he isnt interested in anyone else ,the only thing he wants is for me to tell him what happened how and who .I really dont know what to do ,im tempted but really believe in my wedding vows ,he is a good father and hubby and besides this we havent got a problem he did say that a lot of other women would love their hubbies to give them free reign and it isnt grubby or complicated like an affair . So what would you other women do ,please help its doing my head in thanks vikki

Don't "cheat"

forget sleeping with other men.

play with yourself infront of your man. whether its with toys or not.
more than likely its going to turn him on.

your husband being "overweight" has nothing to do with his sex drive. and ppl working hard, still have amazing sex drives.

Something is going on inside of your husbands head. Have him talk to a therapist, see a doctor.

Maybe he's just bored with your sex life. Try to spice things up. different positions, adding another person, toys, porn, whatever.

As for sleeping with another man, sure it sounds great, even though he says its not a trap. YOU WILL upset him!

Hubby wants me to have sex with other men"

Although you say there is nothing behind him giving you free reign, How do you honestly think he will feel in the end he says he doesn't mind as long as it doesn't get serious. how do you suppose you are going to stop it from getting serious. In my experience having sex I used to see a guy and in the beginning we agreed that the relationship would only be sexual, but of course feelings started to get involved and he became obsessive and eventually I had to distance myself from him. I guess what I am trying to say is will you be able to have a sexual relationship and be able to not get feelings involved

Yes i could

yes i could distance myself and not get involved ,i love my husband dearly and he does love me .so all involved would be aware it was only for fun nothing else

"yes i could"

well if you feel as though you can honestly do this then go for it. My next question would be although you can distance your self without getting involved do you think your husband will honestly be okay with you having sexual relations with another man. Really give it some thought before you go through with it.