Scared?

Hey guys, i need a bit of help.
Im 18 and still a virgin. , When i have a boyfriend, im too nervous to go over to his house or to have him back at mine, because i know hes gonna wanna do stuff. Im really scared about having sex and letting a lad go down on me because my lips hang down and i dont think it looks very nice, and im worried about what he would think. please dont say if hes with you he wont care what you look like, because that really doesnt help. ive been talking to one of my brothers ex mates on msn n hes been saying he wants to go down on me and he wants me to go over his, but im too nervous to do that. im just a bunch of nerves really! help??

Hi

If you are scared, i don't think you are ready.

When you meet someone, get 2 know them 1st, then if nothing happens, it's because your not comfortable, don't rush in to anyhting your not sure about doing.

When you are ready you will know, n i know u said u didnt want us to say about 'if they like u they wont care' well it really is true!