What does the opposite sex think?

I could really do with some advise on what guys think about who should ask who out first, whether there is an easy way of getting them to open up, if they will really admit it if they fancy someone etc.(People are always teasing a boy I really like, especially his best mate, saying he fancies me. I wondered if it could be true).

Any comments on related subjects are very welcome.

Its the guys job

ok i gotta say you girls, if u want us wimps to ask u out, giv us some clearer signals.some girls do that just fine when i look at them, but make it obvious.Its alrite if u wanna ask him out

Old man remembering...

...that he was as stupid as can be! Couldn't see the sweet girl in front of me was "in love"...then fancying the one who didn't care..Brr! It took time sweety to get to know a little bit about all this "social play"...Just try and see...Boys are notoriously stupid anyway when it comes to these things...Just be yourself, tell him in a way or another, a sweet note, an sms, etc...Careful, his group of friends is on top of his priorities, he may NOT want to be with you just to please his friends (I know..) Or they may joke, be cruel, insensitive, etc...Be sweet, don't give up...And don't give up on him when he falls for you...Oouach! How those gals broke my little heart when I was younger...But I broke a few too, I sincerely regret, I learned...sometimes.

Now, I wrote poetry and stories with all that, and I'm still looking, looking...but I'm NOT that romantic anymore..

Anyway, old man talking, have fun, don't worry, careful though if it gets to "the" act, you still have to take a few precautions, you know?

Best wishes

Talk to the guy.

we are not mind readers.

You will...

...if you try, ha! It happened to me when I got to be ...43 , ha!

Re:

I like it when a guy does the final thing afther my positive and open signals. Every guy can notice your positive additute and could read it, now the question is whether he is willing to do somethung about it. There are wimps too, who are willing but don't have the guts.


**Jenny**
www.steadyhealth.com

One more problem...

It's quite embarrassing about who he is so I don't want to start giving out signals if he doesn't like me. Anyway, I prefer open guys, who aren't afraid to trust people with their feelings. If he can't say he how he feels, how can here be any future in it?