Relationships - diffciulty in getting a girl

Hi there,

I am single but am wondering why i find it so hard in finding a girlfriend. I'm 32, good looking, good job, educated etc have mates but when it comes to pulling or retaining a bird its difficult. So the question is whats the secret behind getting your attention and what kind of things do women look for in men. Maybe although i can relax and have a joke around my mates i find it more difficult to do the same around women so come across as serious when approaching a girl in a club etc, maybe too uptight.

i find it easier once i've got in there, eg if i'm in a good, banterish mood and get off on the front foot with a girl the next time i see her i can relax cos she's already seen that i'm fun to be around and i don't need to prove that i'm a laugh - the key is to relax but without alcohol it is difficult. Anyway, any tips from u girls would be highly appreciated, cheers.

Word of advice!

If your going to put in different story's, its a good idea to change your signing in name! That way you wont get caught out, married man who wants to try anal! And there was that one where you was on the beach, should you change your name to fakeboy? gave me a laugh though!

hello,
well it is not that much difficult job to find a bird and have serious relation with her. But, yeah it can take time in developing a serious relation. Look forward for the one with whom your mood, likes dislikes, tastes and choices match. When you find that girl which matches you most as compared to others then, go for that one and take a pledge to make that girl feel that she is the only one whom you can spend your life. Give her time and your care and make her feel happy with you. Give her gifts of her choice and dont expect too much from her. Gradually, if you feel that she also loves you then, wait for a suitable moment and ask for marriage.
Tip: girls want serious relation like marriage because they feel happy to have a legal relation devoid of any lust and chances of separation. If you dont love a girl dont waste her life by flirting. So, dont betray any girl otherwise you will pay for that some day.