I'm so confused .... what does he want

I met this guy since 4 years ago .... but one year ago we hooked up for the summer ... about 1 month into that i got scared of him findin another girl when he goes back abroad to study... so i told him that it might not work out ... a few months ago we started messaging eachother on facebook and we were lookin foward to seein eachother this summer.... but last nite we saw eachother at a family gathering and he ignored me the whole night ..... until i was ready to leave he told me he was angry at me because i didn't tell him "HI" then i hugged him and he said that we'll talk later ......... it so ... me off ..... I really like this guy and we have such a great time together doin fun things and i kno i hurt his feelings when i broke it off last summer .... but i really don't know wat to do....... i haven't even heard from him as yet .... any advice there ppl????????????????????????

He needs to grow up!

How childish is this guy being? You - distant? My ass! He is angry because like a typical male you are supposed to do all the work and kiss his butt all night long? Uh I don't think so - if he truly cared he'd tell you so. He is being a self-important jack ass! Remain friends but nothing more - who says when he is travelling/studying abroad he doesn't cosy up to someone else behind your back? There are too many miles and little trust in your way. Move on, babe! He sounds like a grade A jerk. You need a MAN, not a little BOY! If he ignores YOU because YOU didn't immediately say hi, who says that when you don't email him back immediately when he's studying away, that he doesn't cheat to get back at you. I smell a rat, and I'm afraid that RAT is him!

Distant

You, from a male point of view, are being far too distant. You need to try to get involved with him, show him you care, show him you want to be in his life again. Show him you made a mistake. Don't ignore him or stay distant. The past is the past, but if ya want a future with him in any way, just talk to him generally and as much as possible
Sorry about the late reply
Hope it helps
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