Help please soooooo confused.

Hello

Need some help as my head is so full of different feelings I cannot make any sense. I have been dating this really nice guy for 3 weeks he is really chatty and always keeping in touch between dates ie pretty much what we are all after.

We met via Match.com and but my subscription has run out so I am not activly looking and have to be honest kinda like him so probably wouldn't be looking even if I could.

BUT I couldn't help myself at looking when he last logged onto Match to kinda gauge what his level of interest is and if it matches his words and actions. Anyhow he has been on the site in the last couple of days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!

He don't know I have looked as my profile is hidden now, but it really really hit me and I am now really upset. Guess that I like him more than I thought. Totally lost as to what to say/do, and why he is on the site still.

Please can someone at least speak to me in slow sane simple words if no other reason than I need calming down or a slap.

Lotus

Confront

I think you should talk to him about it. Ask him as to why it's still active. If you don't ask, you won't know. Tell him how you feel; who knows, he may feel even more towards you than you do about him, but is still keeping his options open until he gets an emotional result with you?
best of luck x