Feel trapped

I'm in a very new relationship and things have been moving very, very quickly to say the least, first things could not have been more wonderful and he told me he loved me after 2 weeks of knowing me. I then went away to work for a while and when I came back things were even more wonderful..but then he became very possesive and jelous and we started to argue. an example of this is one night when we went out together, another man made a comment about me and he completely took it out on me. he later apologised and said it was all down to his insecurities. he needs constant reassurance that im not going to leave him and now he has told me that he has constant thoughts of suicide that he cant explain, and has not ever said directly, but insinuated that he wouldnt want to live if i left him. i feel angry that he has put this sort of pressure on me as i am just overcoming my own problems of an eating disorder and feel this has now put me in a vunerable position. i feel so confused, i dont know if he is being completely genuine or if its a bid to try and make sure i never leave him. i really thought i loved him but know i dont know what to think. please give me advice. x

Thanks..

thanks so much for your advice and im so sorry to hear about your situation, hope things are getting better for you x

I was that person

I was that person that was veru possesive and jelous and the reason I was like that is because I had the uncontable jelous strike - like I was waiting to be hurt by that person, so I kept pushing and pushing to try stop that person from ever hurting me and prove to me how much they loved me and were willing to change for me. Unfortunately I pushed that person away - then I changed my ways - but things were never the same again.

If he knows if he carries on he will lose you and his ways are making you doubt your love for him (which was what I was told), it will hurt him but if he really loves you which it seems like he does, he will change and give you the space you need - before the relationship is completly desrtoyed. Do something now - before it gets too late. Unfortunately I learnt my lesson far too late.