Help! dirty pic's from another girl...

I found out that my boyfriend (on-off) of a year has been texting another girl asking for dirty pictures of herself. I was absolutely devastated when I found out and felt totally betrayed, even more so because it was a girl I disliked because she has always sla*gged me off to him, and he knew she fancied him. I cant believe he was even talking to her let alone encouraging her in that way.

He said that it was just a bit of banter that went too far, and it doesnt mean anything. Hes often accused me of not being trusting enough saying that men and women can just be friends. I tried to explain to him that his a jokey, flirty person with women and that it can sometimes be taken the wrong way by women, and I thought he might take that on board. I knew he was flirty and accepted thats just his personality and he doesnt mean anything by it, but I think this was way over-stepping the mark, and so I ended it because I couldnt accept what he had done, and with her of all people just rubbed salt in the wound.

I was an insainly jelous person to begin with and drove him away, after a few months we got back together 'officially' and I gave him the trust and sapce he said he needed to make this work - but then he did this! I believe he didnt fancy her and on his part it meant nothing, but he still betrayed me and didnt give a thought to how it would make me feel. Did I do the right thing, or should I have forgiven him?

I no wot its lyk x

iv been thru the same thing myself but the gurl that sent my ex dirty pics was my best friend!!! this really hurt me to that the 2 people that i thought i cud trust betrayed me, there now together and it hurts me everytime i see them but to be honest im glad i got rid of him because men just think they can get there cake n eat it , well there wrong!! and the way i see it is that my ex-bestfriend is a fool because if he can do that to me then he can do it to her because like the sayin goes a lepord never changes his stops. you did the right thing to get rid of him chick. if u would of stayed with him u wud av jus been insucure and constantly lukin throu his fone and stuff, thats no way to live!!! remember theres plently more fish in the sea and we all meet a couple of pricks b4 we find are rose!!! good luck luv xxxx dnt wurri bout him and dnt take him bk xxxx get out there and get yourself a sexy new man xxxxx

"i no wot its lyk x

i have never seen any dirty pics in my bf fone but i have seen dirty txt messages and i believe that anything that could lead to my bf having a sexual relationship with some girl cannot be innocent and i thought the txts went to far i would have hurt him if they were pics. But that relationship didn't last long becuz the txt never stopped and i think him that girl are together now Oh, WELL Like rachelbabeex said a leopard never changes it spots and there are plenty of fish in the sea i see them everyday.