My boyfriend cheated on me but never told me until after i was in love with him i've lost trust....

I have been with my boyfriend for just over 5 months, but two months ago he confessed to cheating on me just after the first month of our relationship. I had my suspicions, but never said anything in fear of raising an issue that didn't exist and I suppose I was kinda clinging to the fact that I might have been wrong .
We've tried to work things out and I really do love him, but I've lost so much trust in him, and I'll never be able to trust him around her again, ever.
What should I do?
Please help

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Last chance saloon!

Look at this way, he cared enough about you and thought that this relationship could go somewhere, so he was honest with you, he didnt have to tell you. He came clean all on his own, not cos he was found out and had no choice. Yes its going to hard to trust him now. In time, i hope his future actions prove that this was a one off.

Heyy!!

Hey, I had the same prob with my boyf, well not exactly, we both cheated but I was so guilty and told him everything and he had done the exact same but kept it to himself
He then started having a relationship with this woman who is twice my age with a daughter same age as me!!
After a month he said he had been stupid and still loved me and had made the wrong decision
Since then I cant trust him at all and I check his fone at every possible moment.
I dont usually talk about my feelings and keep them in and I'm guessing u do aswell, but I have learned to talk about them which can be difficult but it feels gd wen u do. Tell him ur worries and see wot he has to say, u mite b surprised
Hope I have helped if not sorry lol

"my boyfriend cheated on me but never told me until after i was in love with him i've lost trust...

if you want your relationship to work first you have to start trusting him again i know that might be a hard thing to do. but start slow trying spending more time together and promise each other that you won't keep secrets.

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Thanks for the advice


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No problem if you love him still and feel like it's worth working on the relationship then go for it