How do you deal with a girl who constantly hits on your boyfriend?

how do you deal with a girl who constantly hits on your boyfriend...shes this huge flirt and doesnt seem to get th message that he;s dating someone, and he's completely oblivous. SHe hits on him while Im there, I dont even want to think about what she doesn when I'm not...HELP! HOW DO I DEAL?

Advice.

if you speak to her and tell her how you feel and she still doesn't take heed then i would kick her face in

Haa

i agreee!

You have to be strong

Grrr, I can understand the way you must feel as I lived the same experience some months ago! Men are often blind and don't realize how dangerous some women are. First of all, if I was in your shoes I would talk to my boyfriend to open his eyes. Tell him how you don't feel well about this situation. Then face that girl directly: have a hard fight with her, it will be useful for you to feel relieved. Shout, slap her but don't let her do what she should never do. I hope you'll fix this situation.

Confront her

Not in an insecure way like, 'i dont like it when you flirt with my boyfriend.'
But in a confident way, almost cocky like, 'you fancy my bf dont you? haha'
Dont show her its annoying you, make it sound as if you pity her.

Or you can go the other way around it and just ignore it, this works the same and shows how confident you are in your relationship.
If it were me i'd embarrass her and call her an idiot infront of every one, laugh, then walk away to show her im not scared of leaving her alone with my boyfriend.
But thats just me.
XX

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i know exactly how you feel, and its soooooo anoying, i just wind them up, i kiss my boyfriendd in front of them or just show of, i mean one time i was all dressed up in a nice dress and shoes, and this girl just would not stop flirting and trying to get my boyfriends attention, she didnt look nice at all, but yet she thaught she could get my boyfriend, i just acted confident and not let her know i was annoyed and it seemed she gave up..........

Jenelle

hey how r u kk

How do you deal with a girl who constantly hits on your boyfriend?

first let your boyfriend know that she is flirting sometimes guys are oblivious, second let her know that you do not like her flirting with your man when around and especially when your not around. or try to keep your man out of situations where she is around and if all else fail slap the sh-t put of her and let her know that you don't put up with that ...

Just me

I say if you confront her and she continues to do it and your BF is oblivious to it then slap the ... out of her, that is what i would do if i worn you about doing something and you continue to do it especially fliting with my BF I am going to slap you silly.

Just me

I say if you confront her and she continues to do it and your BF is oblivious to it then slap the ... out of her, that is what i would do if i worn you about doing something and you continue to do it especially fliting with my BF I am going to slap you silly.

Well...

try to ignore it, then you look cool and calm and happy in your relationship - she prob' looks well desperate and annoying. my boyfriend's in a band, and it's ridiculous how many people try it on with him, it would drive me mad if i really thought about it, but i just tell myself things like 'they don't know him at all, he's with me for a reason, we're happy...RELAX!' and it seems to work! it's a confidence thing i guess, as long as you feel good in your relationship, it doesn't matter what these random annoying girls are up to.. be nice and friendly and stay in love, think it works...yay! xx