Feelings for another man

I have been married for 7 years, 3 young children and I am 30. I love my family and my husband is so supportive and is a wonderful person, I couldn't ask for more, people always tell me I am so lucky to have him.

The thing is I have had feelings for another man for about 3 years now, this other man doesn't know, its a very difficult situation, noway could I ever tell him.

I work with him occasionally and we talk and have a giggle, he is really nice. If I pass him in the car he gives me a wave, I go all weak and my heart races.

I know its probably just a crush but my heart is aching here. This man would never be with me, we are both married and even though my friends think he flirts with me from the things he has said to me, I have no idea when it comes to flirting, I wouldn't know if a man was or not. It makes me very sad that I have these feelings for another man but I can't get him out of my head.

What can I do? Is this just a crush even after all of this time?

Thank you.

Thank you all for your replies.

Maybe my marriage is just abit dead because we have forgotten eachother, we are just parents, we both work full time and hardly make time for eachother.

I do have genuine feelings for this other man though and I know him waving or making me laugh doesn't mean he has feelings for me, certain things he has said though people say it sounds more than just being friendly.

I am just trying to block my feelings out for him, hopefully one day they will go away. It has been 3 years now though

It is normal--

Like Bill Clinton, one of my auntie had five boy friends and my uncle had five girl friends. Both knew these relationships. The remained happily married and moved and reached the highest social circle. Variety is the essence. Find out first, whether he has a crush on someone. Give him a OK and let me go first. The alternate route is to keep the relationships discreet. This is 21st century. We all have five times more stress.

"feelings for another man"

I don't think you should act on any of your feelings you know with in yourself that it would be wrong, and just because someone waves at you and chats it up with you doesn't mean that he likes you in that way. maybe your reading into things because all though yuo love your husband you are looking for some form of excitement. When you married you were young and now you are trying to find some of that fun again i suggest you plan to do things with your husband and try to rekindle the flames so noone gets hurt.

Feelings

I think try to add that giggling and talking a lot you do with your college to your husband.It might be thats what is missing without you realising..and the moment you find it somewhere it seems so wonderful. So many little things can make us so confused...I think bring what you find special in this man to the man you know he loves u..