I am the biggest loser there is.

I really don't know how to get out of this situation I'm in. I'm such an idiot. I got drunk and told my friend's bf and all his friends (baring in mind I'd had alot to drink, but still no excuse) that I liked him. She's found out and now I just don't know what to do... she's my closest friend and I've been a total $!?#!! to her, so I understand how she's feeling. Completely. And she has every right to. So what do I do? I've told her that she doesn't have to forgive me, she doesn't have to talk to me, I'm no longer speaking to her bf (I've deleted his number and I won't be going to any social occassions with him or his friends there)... and I don't intend on going any where near him... and all I've asked for is that she hears what I have to say... which is basically that I screwed up... I clearly have no morals... and that I'm cruel. But I can't help but want her to forgive and forget, even though I know I can't ask her to do that. I really don't want to lose this friend. I've said I'll do whatever it takes to make things right. But I know it's not going to be enough. What do I say? Or do? How do I approach this? I'm willing to do soooo much to make things right. I feel sick to my stomach when I think about all this hurt I've caused. She's self concious about herself as it is. The worse part is that I have to see her everyday. I can't face what I've done.

What's the big deal!

It's not a crime to find your mates boyfriend attractive! It's not like you slept with him or kissed him or anything. For all you know he might find you attractive too...would that make him a bad guy!? I think not. It's natural to be attracetd to other people - I think everyone just needs to take a step back and chill out.

Unless you plan on moving to another country, you need to sort this out. Sit down with your mate, explain you were drunk and talking nonsense, and that even if you liked her boyfriend, there's no way in the world you'd ever act on it and try it on with him. If she's any kind of friend, and isn't terribly insecure she'll come round.

I can't really see what's the big deal...?

And to say you've got "no morals"... utter nonsense. You sound very sincere, you were just drunk, and when people are drunk, they generally say and do stupid things. If she doesn't accept your apology, move on and put it down to experience.

End of.

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I am the biggest loser there is. "

how did things end up with you and your best friend did you get a chance to tell her you were drunk,

"i am the biggest loser there is. "

well you broke the first rule of being a good girl friend to someone.

I wouldn't forgive you if i was her because i would always have it in the back of my mind that you will back stab me again.
In my group of friends even if you have broken up with a guy you cannot get involved with him if he was you friends man. it just isn't right and your right you have no morals as a friend i would always wonder if you had the intention to take my man away don't think you are going to be so easily forgiven you may have to be prepared to lose a friend.

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""i am the biggest loser there is. ""

what ever happened with this situation

What the?

I have no idea what the last person was on but seriously!! When did blokes become more important than friends?Why are friends suddenly so disposable!!! Wheres the loyalty to the girls and guys who will be there Before, During and After the blokes and the relationships? The ones who will be there with a cup of tea when you cry or a good knees up when youre low!! If my mate said my bloke was fit I'd thank her!! unless she made a pass or slept with him THEN I'd get mad!! Whats with the bull about you have no morals? did you f**k him?no! did you touch him? no! If your friend cant get past this she's no kind of friend end of!!

What happened to guys come and go and friends are there forever!!

Look stuff like this happens you just have to get over it and I'm sure your friend will get over it too!! stop punishing yourself its not going to any of you any good!!