Help, i need some advice

My bfriend keeps getting text from a girl he has never met asking him to meet her at a hotel, Originally we thought it was a joke and we sat there and text her together, But now its got a bit more serious and i am starting to worry.

He tells me constantly that her loves me and he has given up a lot for me am i just being silly?

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What do you mean its got more serious? Between him and this texting woman?

Don't want to bad mouth him but personally don't think he should be using emotional blackmail, telling you he's given up a lot for you! Doesn't mean it gives him the right to text or meet this other women!

Sorry, not being much help!

-yingy x

Help, i need some advice"

maybe your boyfriend, is lying to you and he really does know this women. may be you and should sit down and ask your boyfriend to be truthful with you

Hmmm...

god, that's a tricky one. it sounds like you trust him though, which is a good thing - thing is, it shouldn't be continuously going on - if he doesn't know her, just stop texting her back..she'll stop texting after a while. One of my girl mates got some texts from a random man, so it def happens, it's just whether you respond or not...if your boyfriend stops replying, the whole thing will run out of steam after a while... remember too though, people can get a bit carried away with the unknown element of stuff like this, that's what i'd worry about i think, it'a almost like, because he doesn't know her (if that is true) he can create her in his imagination..so it's all a bit fake, but i can def' understand why you might get worried, upset about it. i think if he cares about your feelings, he'll stop doing it... hope it works out xx