Should i call it a day

could really do with some advice,
i found out a year ago that my husband(we'd only been married 6mths!) had feelings for a client at work. I found messges between the pair of them saying they lved each other etc etc. Anyway, he said he wanted to make our marriage work but it just hasnt felt the same. a couple of months ago i found messages again exchanging their undying love for eachother.(she lives about 300miles away). i told my husband i couldnt force him to be with me and ended it. he asked me if we could try again but I know he is still in contact with her because she helps him out with his masters degree. she literally rights his assignments for him!!! its breaks my heart that i never get i love you or even kisses in a message when i know thats what he doing with her. Is he using her or me? our sex life is great but i dont know if his heart is elsewhere!!!!!!

Should i call it a day

even if your sex life is great, are you ready to have this women in your life forever, because basically your letting your husband know that he can have you as well as havng this other women. If you know deep within you that he will still being seeing this women is this what you want for your self afterall you did end the relationship for a reason.

"should i call it a day"

have you decied what decision you are going to make regarding your relationship with your husband and this other women.