Whats wrong with me am i been paranoid

Hiya everyone... I need a little bit of advice
Im 18 years old and was with an ex of mine for a year an few months, We split up because am a glamour model and my ex didnt like what i do.. so because i carryed on with my modeling when i went to see my bf he would beat me and cheat on me constantly and made me feel so small.

i have been in a new relationship for about 6 months an for the last two months hes came home different what i mean by that is hes not loving, blanks me, refusin sex.. so it made me think is he getting it else were?
so i went through he fone and theres messages of some messages onhis phone of a girl not enough to give me proof hes cheatng, so i assed him about it an he got arressive and pushed me down the stairs sometimes he comes home ok but sometimes he can go missing for few days i ask him were and he tells me to shut up am paranoid

i can never ask were hes been or go through his phone when people ring he leaves the room...

i have tryed talking to peoplebut hey no him so i wanted to talk to someone who understands my point of view... Is this me beig Paranoid from my last relationship..x

Wb Thankyou
Hayley

How are you?

how you been doing since my last post you haven't replied.

My opinion

No , you're not being paranoid you're being an idiot. So you think it's ok to get pushed down the stairs do you... No? Then why are you still with this creep?

So you've tried talking to him have you... got you nowhere did it?, What a suprise. You can't talk to people like that and expect anything to come of it. Get out of that relationship, unless you like being used and abused.

Who cares if he might be cheating on you or not, he's VIOLENT!

Leave or become another statistic.

xxx

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Whats wrong with me am i been paranoid

He is definetly doing something, If he is gone for a few days and themn when you ask him wheer he has been and he has no solid answers and he wants to abuse you then I would think that there is something going on. Why would he become violent if he wasn't doing anything he obviously has a guilty conscious. If you feel you have to go through his phone and spy what is the point of th relationship. I suggest you get out of the relationship, not because he cheats but just because he is abusive towards you.

There is definately something wrong with you.

Honestly girl what the hell are you still doing with this bloke????

It doesn't matter if he is cheating you or not, you do not deserve to be pushed down the stairs or to be on the end of his aggressive tantrums!!!

Have some self respect and get out of this relationship.

Personally I think he probably is cheating.

Good luck.

x x x