I dont know what to do advise needed.

Recently i feel like my boyfriend of 6 months doesnt want me anymore. We went on holiday and i thought it would be a nice romantic time but all he cared about was getting a sun tan, he didnt pay me much attention and never gave me a kiss or cuddle unless i asked for it. also he doesnt seem to want sex anymore, he used to try it on and call me beautiful and kiss me all the time but hes just stopped doing it. Also when we got back off holiday i thought we were going to have a nice bank holiday weekend together but then he said he wanted to watch the footie, at first he said it would just be a few hours then it turned into 7 hours and he couldnt wait to get rid of me in the morning and then he was supposed to see me at 6 after the footie but instead i got a call at half 6 saying he was having a night out with the lads and maybe not coming home. I feel completely unwanted and its our anniversary today aswell and he hasnt even aknowledged it. i tried to talk to him about it and say that it was a bit mean for him to ditch me for the lads when i hadnt seen him all day and said he couldve asked if i minded and he went off on one saying he shouldnt have to ask and he wasnt sorry at all. Is like he does what he wants and doesnt care about ne1 else. im really worried that he might cheat on me or find someone else. what do i do? Please help.

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my boyfriend told me yesterday that he doesnt want to go on holiday with me or move in with me anymore. He said that he needs space from me. He says hes not dumping me but it feels like he doesnt want to see me. We used to spend every nite together and he used to say thats what he wanted. Now he says he doesnt wanna spend every nite together and i dont even know when i get to see him next. he said hes getting cold feet and feels like hes married. what do i do? i feel so upset, it feels like hes ripped out my heart. It feels like i dont have a future with him anymore and it makes me feel sick, i cant eat, cant sleep and im shaking all the time. I dont want to lose him. Is he just getting freaked out about commitment and will this pass or is it going to be like this forever? Or is he going to dump me? Please help.

Hiya, I feel for u so much, its not nice but u obviously realise that you deserve better than that! perhaps you should start organising some girly nights out and stop being the person waiting for him, he does this cos he knows you'll just be waitin for him, but once u stop being patient and waiting and start living your own life he'll soo realise he can take you for granted and perhaps he will start to rethink the way he's treated you, you need to be indipendant and live your own life and not put your own life on hold waitin for a selfish ass! hope u get it sorted soon.

Read please

you really deserve better, be independant, do plan your days with your girls. But I would really sit down, take a peice a paper and write down how you feel. What your values are in life and what you want from life. not what you want from him. Take time to to rethink, these over..no rush. You must cleary understand what you tolerate and what you dont tolerate. and talk to him!

takes 2 ppl to talk! express..write it down, let him read it..

hes not treating you with respect

the respect that you deserve.

talk to him!
and let him talk too

in a calm, mature, level. no yelling, no name calling, let eachother speak=)

good luck