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Hi,

i Wanted some advice, I have been ina relationship just over a year, i was with y ex for 3 yrs i have only been single 4 months in between each relationship and my past relationship i cheated and so did my ex, although i am only 20,

The thing is I had to work at a differnt base from my usual work (same business) and i met a guy there who i wasnt instantly attracted to him but hes funny and a bit of a flirt although not just with me.. but his eyes remind me of my ex, and i guess i like the attention, i havnt contemplated cheating b4 and i dont really want to but i have had quite racy phone calls with him since (worked with him bout 3month ago) he has a gf of 2-3 yrs and is 24 liek my bf, my bf is kinda dull just seems to be interested in his car and doesnt like me going out(jelous) i have been dreaming about this other guy and cant stop thinking of him, said in a kind if matey/flirty way for him to come up to my work on his day off next week, he said he would but i think i would be very disapointed if he didnt, i feel like i dont know what to do, i dont want to cheat but i dont think i want to finish wiv my bf or that he would with his gf but i cant stop thinking of him!
what do i do..
he doesnt know he just thinks i want to sleep with him although he said he thinks im out of his league! (bless)

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it's not so nice to use other people
especially if feelings and emotions are involved...
you're actually using this guy to get away
with your man...

Flirt but don;t go there

Hun..you are suffering from sparkle..that lovley squishy excited attraction/obsessed phase that turns our brains off!
Biiiig danger here..he's not free..you will be getting used. You're not free and you are using him.
But keep it safe...don;t get into somethign you'll regret.
Enjoy the fun & flirt..he has already said nicely that he will not be serious with you.."out of his league"
Your boyfriend might need to be made a little jealous..that will keep him on his toes...but pls don't
do anythign that in a few months time you coudl regret bigtime
hugs
H



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