Climax

if anybody can help me with this 1 it would be very much appreciated.
im only young and have only had 1 sexual partner so i no i have alot to learn..

wen having sex with my now ex partner i never once reached a climax..
however our sex together never lasted very long :S could this be the reason for me not climaxing?

also there is a spot inside of me that when it is touched to firmly with fingers it makes me want to pee... now i have read the blog on here about the g-spot and peeing but i am not convinced. im unsure that i was reaching anyform of sexual pleasure as i actually wasnt having much fun !:S so what does that mean ?! im guessing it didnt help that i wasnt that relaxed as i didnt enyoy my partner and i envolving in this form of intamacy.
please help me
thanks xx

Climax

Hi there I have to agree with the other posts the most important thing is to relax. I'm guessing there wasn't much foreplay or cuddling or kissing and once your ex got going he didn';t hang around long before ejaculating. I think you probably need longer in the foreplay and maybe a little more stimulation by him to get you further down the line. I have had many sex sessions with hubby and not orgasmed. Women are different and need different states of arousal to orgasm. Men seem to orgasm much more easily.

Have you tried masturbating and finding a technique or position that brings you to orgasm? Maybe if you tried this then you could introduce it the next time you have sex. nothing wrong in masturbating with your partner although if my experience is anything to go on men aren't the best at masturbating us women. Plenty good at oral though lol. As for the peeing bit that is very normal times I am on top and if the angle is right with hubby inside me I feel I'm going to pee. I have read about female ejaculation and it's something I would love to achieve.

Climax

Hi there I have to agree with the other posts the most important thing is to relax. I'm guessing there wasn't much foreplay or cuddling or kissing and once your ex got going he didn';t hang around long before ejaculating. I think you probably need longer in the foreplay and maybe a little more stimulation by him to get you further down the line. I have had many sex sessions with hubby and not orgasmed. Women are different and need different states of arousal to orgasm. Men seem to orgasm much more easily.

Have you tried masturbating and finding a technique or position that brings you to orgasm? Maybe if you tried this then you could introduce it the next time you have sex. nothing wrong in masturbating with your partner although if my experience is anything to go on men aren't the best at masturbating us women. Plenty good at oral though lol. As for the peeing bit that is very normal times I am on top and if the angle is right with hubby inside me I feel I'm going to pee. I have read about female ejaculation and it's something I would love to achieve.

Climax"

maybe you didn't climax cuz your partner was to eager to please himself. the g spot is located inside the vagina maybe you should try masturbation in order to learn what it is you like sexually everyone enjoys different things and when you know how your body works any partner you have will be the best partner cuz you will teach them how to please.

Partner failure

you dont have to blame yourself it is your partner who should be blamed he did not attend to your needs.....
1. your partner must be pretty poor in bed because he cant cotrol himself or he rushed into sex before heating you up
2. you should try other techniques with your new partner and this tmie tell him to go easy and do not rush into the penetration stage but spend more time fondling with each other and then try oral sex it will blow your mind