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When having oral sex what is better ?

ladies when having oral sex do you prefer :

1.to have your clitoris licked directly

2. have only the hood of your clit licked

3. have delicate stimulated with a finger

4. have intense stimulaion with a finger

5 first have your vagina stimulated


Is it true that some women dislike intense, direct stimulation of their buttons with a finger and instead they prefer delicate stimulation of their hood ??

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What i like

i ususally tend to like my hood rubbed/licked more.
after some like that licking i like to be fingered while being licked.
it makes me want to pass out after we're done but it feels amazing :]!

Mine.

Three fingers inside vagina, one in my rear hole, vaginal labia full separated, clit out of the hood between his lips, complete work on it with lips and tongue, smooth and tender at first and increasing rhythm and preasure the same as I'm developing my temperature.

Sandy.
sandnewsex@yahoo.com

Licking

hi
gentle direct licking works the best for me and when i'm really hot'n'ready fingers must be introduced deep inside my vagina, followed by a penis to finish it off, but as other replies suggested we are all different
belladonna

Advice

my girl loves it when i gently lick her clitoris while my finger rubs the front wall of her vagina in a

Hi..

middle finger in, n tongue circling around clit!
works a treat! lol.

and no poking off the clit! that bloody hurts!! most guys iv been with treat it like a light switch lol.x

Tongue

slow, wet and soft...

Introduction to oral sex

I've found an article dedicated to oral sex: http://www.love-shop.biz/introduction-oral.html .I think it may be useful for some body. It's quite interesting and informative.

It depends...

At first, it is best to stick only to the clit hood. Only when the partner is real hot should you pull back the clit hood and tongue the clit directly. Otherwise, it may be too hard for her to bear and it's not fun any more.

Don't intend to make the stimulation too intense (or too mechanical), whether it is your tongue or finger.

Hope this helps .

Clit????

I can't agree entirely , -as a male who has spent considerable time researching "what gives my lady the most pleasure" I am astounded at how little a big proportion of females know about their bodies .
Lets take the clitoris for example (and yes I know many men thought that Clitoris was a roman emperor)- here we have what appears to be a little nub of a thing at the top end of the female genitals just above the vaginal aperture ,yet in reality this little nub is some 7-8 cms long , incorporating the labia and finishing at the anal aperture.
Something I find fascinating is that this "clitoris" is the only human organ that has no other function other than to provide pleasure! ( wish we guys had one ).
I can't entirely agree with the previous writer - in my experience the effect and type of stimulus and the corresponding reaction vary so much with the individual that the only real way to find out is to "suck it and see" -what has your lady making the happiest noises is the right way to go.

Not really

Every1 is different. I hate being touched down there, unless its really gently it hurts like hell!!
And when my boyfriend goes down on me i can hardly feel it!
Wasting your time researching women, not on of them is the same..lol

xx

Hmmm. clitoris sucking...yes.

I love my clitoris being sucked! I agree.

Oral sex

Don't forget the ass hole while your there

Often neglected

couldn't agree more , anal stimulation is a wonderful experience in close relationships - every part of the body that responds to stimulation shoud be used.
As a male hedonist I will do anything to induce or stimulate my partners pleasure .



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