I am perfectly fine reaching climax on my own either with porn or with a bullet/egg and am fine using it during sex however, I would LOVE to be able to reach climax without the aid of the bullet and just rely on a partner but have never been able to...ever.

It's really, really upsetting as I've been with people that I really love and people that really turn me on and it just never happens unless I bring in the bullet....

Anyone have this problem?? I'm so fed up of hearing friends talking about climaxing with their partners