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Still bi and still pregnant

i am now 3 months pregnant and have nobody to be there for me. my baby has no daddy and i am sort of on my own with this. i dont want a guy because guys are pigs. i want a girl because they understand what it is like. please request me as your friend so i can have people to help me through this.


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Desperate to be with another girl

Aaaaaargh!! I feel like I am about to burst. I have fantasised for a long time about being with another girl sexually for a long time but it's not like you can just walk up to another girl and be like 'Hey, I fancy you' cos you'll probably just get a slap.
I've never been to a gay club and the thought frightens me because I don't want a lesbian, just someone like me who's bi-curious. Anyone have any helpful advice or has the same feelings as me???

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Heya

u sound just like me!
Im 20,and have always had boyfriends,never had a girlfriend.
but have known since i was 14/15 that i was interested in girls too
(i had a huge crush on Denny from bad girls - Alicya Eyo)
And have only recently admited to myself and my friends that i am bisexual
i havent been to a gay club before,and dont really know many gay/bi people,so its hard to get into the mix.
theres a website i found through facebook,which is just for bi/gay girls and it seems really good.
hope this helps
Aisling x

Hi

i feel the same , but cant find anyone and its really annoying cuz i dnt knw wht to do!
i dnt knw where to meet girls either and i think id be embarrised if she was a proper lesbian and i think im bi-curious like you.
ive been chatted up my lesbians but i dont fell confident enough to go ahead and meet thm cuz im not that confident about my body.
any advice would be great
x

Dont stress!

Hiya, new to this forum today, so would just like to say hi aswell :P
erm im 20 and i came out as bi-sexual to my parent and friends about 4/5 years ago, and it was the best thing, massive weight off my shoulders.
Before coming out, i fantasised about girls so much when with boyfriends etc, but was too scared of what i knew i was, which was bi-sexual, as most selfish people see it as 'greedy and sick' haha!! good times lol.
What im saying to you darlin, is that most girls has fantasies about being with a girls (as there a whole lot better :P) but if deep down, you know that you really want this, then go to gay bars etc and just be casual with it, your bound to be chatted up by at least one girl in there, remember most of them are in there for the same reasons, to meet a girl and get their number. But, seeing as you dont want to meet a lesbian, this probably wont be the place, but nor would the internet, as you never really know who your chatting to etc.
By the looks of it tho hunnie, youll meet some people on here too.

sorry my reply hasnt been the most helpful
love louise xxx

The internet

There are loads of websites out there for girls like us. I and a lot of my friends are bi and we've met girls like this.

It's not seedy and you can go at whatever speed you feel comfortable. Chat until you're ready to give them your phone number and then text and speak until you're ready to meet up.

Personally I'd meet up with a girl who has already had experience, she can show you all the ropes

Bisexual and pregnant

im bi im pregnant with my second baby and am looking for someone. i dont want a guy because both of my childrens daddys left when they heard i was pregnant. wanna chat w/ me

Still bi and still pregnant

i am now 3 months pregnant and have nobody to be there for me. my baby has no daddy and i am sort of on my own with this. i dont want a guy because guys are pigs. i want a girl because they understand what it is like. please request me as your friend so i can have people to help me through this.

Bi

hey im bi well i think i am lol and would love to try and have sex with a girl but not sure how to find any x

Yeah, i do and i did...

many years ago in my twenties i was with another woman (close friend). she was very religious and all we did was kiss and suck each other's breasts, she would not take her pants off...to thi very day i remember the smell of her breast (milky..) and the taste of her nipple in my mouth. it was pure extasy and i want more. i'm gonna contact her and see what's up. wish me luck. you can find someone on the net, but be very careful and make them send a picture (blind dates not advised). love to all the lovers of the female body, which rocks!!!

I agree

i really want to be with a girl. i dont really want to go ato a gay club or anything, but i would be lovely to meet a girl and just have great sex!

Desperate to be with another girl"

why not just go to the gay clubs you wil probably meet some one there that is bi-curious, just like you. how are you going to meet someone if you don't explore your feelings.

Me to!

I can't believe there are so many other women that feel the same as me! When i masturbate and get oral from my bf i imagine being with a girl and it makes me cum so quick!! Any takers in London/Essex? x

Me too!

Sometimes i only come when i imagine a girl. x

Not gay but..........

im not gay but i would love to be with another girl, just for the experience!

Me too

HI THERE,IAM MARRIED WITH A GOOD SEX LIFE,BUT I HAVE ALLWAYS WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH A WOMEN,I ASKED MY HUSBAND FOR A THREESOME BUT HE SAID NO.SO FOR A WHILE I WAS FINE BUT THEN I COULDNT HELP THINKING ABOUT IT,SO A COUPLE OF NIGHTS AGO I SLEPT WITH A VERY SEXY AND HORNY WOMEN,WOW IT WAS AMAZING I GOT TO SAY I WOULD DO IT AGAIN IF IT WAS OFFERD.MY HUSBAND NEW AND HE DIDNT WANT TO WATCH AS HE SAID IT DID NOTHING FOR HIM.IAM NOT GAY BUT IAM SO GLAD I DID IT,BEST SEX EVER ,BUT DONT TELL MY HUSBAND,I TOLD HIM IT WAS JUST OK.

Honestly

i'm straight, but i think most women have secret fantasies about being with another woman.... i have a gay aunt and a bisexual cousin, so i've been to gay bars.. it made me curious, so i've made out with girls, but i think i'm way to nervous to ever try a three some lol

I feel the same

I am with my long term partner and I think if I hadn't met him I would be with a woman. I know most men probably would love thier women to like other girls but he doesn't as I have alot of gay friends and he knows that i could just as much leave him for a woman as I could a guy. I am stressed out because I work with all men and they do the usual perve thing with hot women and I have a look too and it gets me hot.
The furthest I have been is kissing a girl but I ould like to try more just to see if its real or just a fantasy. I like really girly girls.

Cecilia.x

Hey

Hey there

Well i can understand what your saying, I have a partner and ive bin with him over a year and we are expecting our first child. i love him 2 bits. ive had a few experiences with other woman and it was great and now i can never get it out my mind. girly girls do it 4 me, not butch, but, im not a lesbian so that makes sence. my partner knows and isnt so bothered about it.But theres nothing wrong with thinking about it

J x

I know how you feel...

Yeah it's a nightmare isn ... !

Judging by all your replies, it appears that there are far too many of us girly-girls who are attracted to same but are all experiencing the same difficulties!!!

I'm a Manchester girly... any takers??? XXX

Hi

Just become a member of this forum, Ive been bi-curious for a while, my husband is ok with that, but I dont know where or how to begin. Any ideas?

Gill

Hi!

How far to you then.... he he he!
You could always do abit of cyber sex, girls on gaydar.com seem up for that!
I also fancy girls as well as guys but only straight looking girly girls like me, its so annoying that you never know if someones into it but you do generally get a bit of a vibe,just a sort of flirtiness!
xxx



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