Help..

I recently went out with an old friend who i have been friends with for years. I hadnt seen her in a while so we had lots to catch up on. Every thing was just like it used 2 be until she blurtted out that she was bi. Now, i dont have a problem with gays but later on in the night she told me i was beautiful and she really fancied me. I felt really put out and decided 2 leave, now i dont know how 2 talk 2 her and she keeps phoning. The other problem is that nite she got ready at mine and being girl mate's we got changed in the same room.. underwear on... but when she was telling me she fancied me she kept on saying u have such a great body and yer boobs r amazing.. normally i'd be flattered but i felt really awkward. Please help i really want 2 b ok with this and b supportive but i dont know how 2 b around her knowing how she feels.

Don't panic...

I think in this case honesty is the best policy...just tell her that you love her, but her revelation has blown you away a little, and whilst you have no problem with it and how she lives her life, she needs to remember that you are straight, and it makes you a little uncomfortable when she says intimate things about you. Tell her you'll happily help her find someone gorgeous, but that it aint gonna be you! : ) try and keep it light-hearted..it might be easier than you think.. it will get worse if you avoid it though hun, as they say on your voice-mail, Why not send a text! hope this helps x

Don't panic

Hey,

I admire your friend honesty. There are a lot people out there who leave in denial, are not honest and end up breaking people heart. You need to speak to her.Avoiding is not going to resolve anything!! I reckon you should appreciate her effort made by telling you the truth.
I know you are a shocked right now but put yourself together and when you are ready, make her understand your sexual orientation is straight and there is no way of both of getting intimate!! She will understand.

Good luck and take care.

xxcoeurxx