Low sex drive, or another issue?

Hello, I've seeked advice from people I trust and no one really seems to have any idea about my situation. I was in a relationship with a man for a little over a year. We had sex once in the entire year, for several reasons: both somewhat inexperienced, bad opportunities, and it simply isn't something that's really that important to us.

My problem is that I also like women. Him and I broke up because I felt sort of trapped, as though we were already married and I'm too young for a situation like that. Towards the end of our relationship I felt no sparks at all, I hardly wanted him to touch me. I want to get back with him, but I'm not sure that's the best idea, is it a fatal mistake to get back with him and not want to have sex with him or do things with him physically that often? He really says he's ok with it, but I'm just afraid I may be too gay to be with him and end up hurting him down the line. Or could it possibly have something to do with the time in my life, just starting college and all?

Any opinions of my situation?

I hope this sheds a litte light

for me a relationship has everything to do with sexual connection. if i'm not attracted to the way they touch me i can't have a sexual reltionship with them. i like boys and girls but i definately rely on attraction. your lover can be your best friend but there is definatly a line, also if you are more into other things in your life at the time ie) school. maybe you should follow what your body tells you, first instinct is always the feeling you will come back to in the end. yes you can still be friends and no one ever said you couldn't just enjoy being around each other without putting a label on your relationship. i would ask myself am i more attracted to women? or am i just not attracted to this one man. it could be that there is something on your mind you havent mentioned-a fear or self conciousness.