Help sex is sore & a chore

Hello

My name is Helen and i have been with my partner for just over a year.

I really feel in the mood to have sex and when we do we use gel and its still sore.

Before i have had a good sex life, but i do love my bf but can't seem to get it right in the bedroom department.

Any advice?

Anyone else feel this way?

Foreplay

Are you having enough foreplay? If not, you might be too dry which will cause soreness.