Sex or rather no sex!

Hi everyone,
I've been reading everyones posts here but although similar are not the same as our problem. My husband and I are both 41 and married for 21 yrs, (yes, we still want sex) but the problem is that I went through the menopause when I was only 25 when up to that point sex was great but since then my libido is all but non existant. Can anyone tell me if this is normal? We both love each other very much and would love to get back some kind of sex life together.
Any advice would be good lol
Debra(london)

Some options

There are natural herbal remedies available that can help to increase your libido. Certain foodsa can help too (chocolate, oyster, figs, celery, avocado). Otherwise, you can always ask your doctor for advice.