No sex drive at 19!!!

I'm 19 years old and i have a very new relationship with my boyfriend of 2months and i have no sex drive.
I just don't feel like doing anything sexual! In the past i have had many sexual relationships, but i now can't find it in me to do anything!
It's not him, he's perfect in bed and very unselfish, he does have smaller "parts" than my ex, but i don't feel anything from penatration anyways!
I'm not worried or uptight about my body, although i think i should lose some weight, but doesn't everybody!?
Most people tell me i need to spice things up, with toys or trying different things. But what if i can't even bring myself to do it?! It's like i'm lazy!
Everytime i have sex with my boyfriend it feels like a chore to get started, but once things get going its fine!
It's obviously putting a strain on our relationship, mostly for him.
I just wanted to know if anyone else my age had/has the same problem.
I thought at my age i should be nearly at my most sexual peak!
Help!

Libido killer

I just found this message so I hope you get it and it is not too late.

Our modern lifestyle (especially our dietary habits) cause a lot of sexual problems. Many of the things we eat are real Libido Killers.

For example how much coffe or tea do you drink each day?

Do you use any soy products (this is a major libido killer) look at everything; does it contain soy bean oil, soy flour or meal, tofu, or soy milk, etc.


Do you eat a lot of processed carbohydrates or sweets?

How much fish do you eat a week. Do you take any supplements?

Do you use hydroginated oils. Do you use real butter or margerine? Do you use olive and canola oil?

How much red meat do you eat each week?

The typical diet is lacking many of the nutrients needed for a normal healthy sexual response including strong sexual desire and frequent easy and intense orgasms.

And on top of that we eat things that decrease and interfere with normal sexual functions of the mind and the body.

The best way to fix a dormant/broken libido is to provide the body and brain with the nutrients it needs.

Yes at 19 you are nearly at your most sexual peak but you may have broken it with a Libido Killing diet.

David Christian Solomon

www.easyorgasmdiet.com

Is he a taurus?

I was wondering if he is being too demanding and wanting it like , brushing his teeth. Tell him we need time, meals, treats, hugs - not just to leading to sex.
Or maybe he just doesn't do it for you in the pants department?
You might be saving it for someone who gives you the shivers just looking at him...
H

Found a selfish answer....

No he's not a Taurus or demanding really.
I think i know what it is now though! I think i was indenial!
I did say it was nothing to do with his size...But i think it is. My ex was big in that department, way above average and i found it a challenge. In a way it made me feel dirtier?!
I think although my boyfriend isn't small or no way as big, i think the challenge and the fun of thinking "i have this monster inside me!" has vanished some what.
Is that a wrong feeling to have? And selfish maybe?!

Eh

no worries. It happens to the best of us. YOu will have sudden urges in anywhere from weeks to months up to a year even. Just talk to your boyfriend about how you feel like not doing. If he was a good boyfriend he would understand and just keep going like a normal relationship

Thanks

His normal reply is that sex is needed in a relationship! But i suppose if he liked/loved me that much, he'd understand!
Thanks =)