I dont understand

i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now ,i love him very much.but he dont seem to want sex that often, and when we do have sex he cant hold him self for long.even when he gets aroused he still turns it down.why?.hes lebaness and only 34, iam english and 37.can anyone help with this problem.

Hi

i think he is scared in case he couldnt please you he trys to avoid making love to you because he dont wana loose you i m sure he loves you very much.only you the one builed his confidence.try to talk to him and tell him how much you love him. like if he fail to please you. you two will try again i m sure it will work

Talking might help

Have you tried talking with him about it? Maybe it's psychological or maybe it's a physical problem that he's too embarrassed to talk about.