Am i a freak? i feel it...

during sex i feel nothing! there isnt any pain but i dont get any pleasure,it makes me not want to, i really dont know what to do! i never have felt anything but its really getting me down, and it makes my self confidence drop so much! im 19 :|
anyone think they know the answer?? this is seriously affecting my drive,

No your not a freak

Hiya im 20 and was exactly the same as you , i felt nothing. I think that it was because of lack of self confidence and not feeling comfortable with someone. Im now sleeping with a close male friend i trust and feel comfortable with and the sex is amazing. When im not turned on i feel nothing, so maybe get really turned on before you have sex . When u start having sex dont think about not feeling anything, just go with the flow think dirty stuff and just really get in the mood, then take control go really slow if it feels good for you, then ul find that your starting to feel something down there, so control your movement. Youl probably find you still feel nothing good inside but say if your on top and you control your movement your clit will rub on him and as you get faster and stuff it wil get you off. But tbh it is really about being comfortable, if your not you cant begin to think about anything but that.
Hope this helps.

"am i a freak? i feel it..."

maybe you should try to figure out what it takes for you to feel good while having sex. You could do this by masturbating you are probably saying to your self that you can't do this but masturbation is very normal and could teach you lots of things about your body that you don't know. I hope this helps sex is supposed to be something pleasurable for you and your partner to both enjoy.

""am i a freak? i feel it...""

just a follow up top my earlier post how have you been doing with your not being able to enjoy sex, if you haven't tried to figure out what you like through masturbation maybe you should try counselling maybe you have some underlying issues.

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maybe you should try to figure out what it takes for you to feel good while having sex. You could do this by masturbating you are probably saying to your self that you can't do this but masturbation is very normal and could teach you lots of things about your body that you don't know. I hope this helps sex is supposed to be something pleasurable for you and your partner to both enjoy.

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"""am i a freak? i feel it..."""
Posted by jahnai 5 March at 15:05


just a follow up top my earlier post how have you been doing with your not being able to enjoy sex, if you haven't tried to figure out what you like through masturbation maybe you should try counselling maybe you

Another question

is it just the sex with your partner, or happens it also, if you do it yourself? did you ever tried it?
maybe, you just dont know, what you like, and what not...

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u should find a compatible partner in bed that will evoke your pleasure..