Im not interested!!

Hii
Im 18 and been with my boyfriend 4 nearly 7 months.
This is the longest relationship Ive ever had with anyone and I even lost my virginity to him.
The problem that I get is that I never want sex. He always wants it but I dont. I mean it feels brilliant but I'd rather go without and when ever tell him, he feels rejected all the time and hes thinking im falling out of love with him but i am feeling really upset about this because he shouldnt be thinking like this. But it's me isn ...

Is it my sex drive or libido?
I dont know what to do because I think we may brake up because of this and I love him loads.
I want sex all the time like he does but somethings stopping me all the time.

Please help somebody is you can!
Im starting to think im weird


Charlotte
xxxx

"im not interested!! "

thank u for both of your replies


getting pregnant is probably what i am scared of and i have mentioned that this may be why i am like this but i dont think he understands what i mean. he thinks whenever i use protection it will be OK. the condom has split a couple of times and i hate getting morning after pills as i've heard they make u gain weight.

I was on the pill last year but came off because of my mood swings and gaining weight.
I am really not sure what the hell to do!! lol
he thinks i am always rejecting him

"im not interested!! "

that could be one of the reasons but i was thinking were you ever told that sex is dirty and shouldn't be done unless you are having children sometimes when we are given negative advice or comments about sex it plays a role in how we feel about it.

Medication?

Have you started taking the pill or some other kind of medication? It's possible that it could be interfering with your interest (or lack of interest) in sex.

P.S. It's normal on average for guys to want sex more often than girls, it's just the way they're programmed!