I still have my sex drive but my husband doesnt

Hello im late 30s and still have my sex drive ,but hubby doesnt he is overweight and works hard and as a result is normally to tired . We have spoken about the problem and he has told me that he doesnt mind being a cuckold type hubby ,he has told me that if I want to I can go out and sleep with other men as long as it doesnt get serious .He assures me it isnt a trap so he can go of with other women and to be honest I believe him when he says he isnt interested in anyone else ,the only thing he wants is for me to tell him what happened how and who .I really dont know what to do ,im tempted but really believe in my wedding vows ,he is a good father and hubby and besides this we havent got a problem he did say that a lot of other women would love their hubbies to give them free reign and it isnt grubby or complicated like an affair . So what would you other women do ,please help its doing my head in thanks vikki

I still have my sex drive but my husband doesnt

I think your husband may suggest that you sleep with other men, but I don;'t think he really means it. How are you going to stop things from getting serious, what if you start to develop feeling for this person.

hi

I certainly can empathise with you, although this is still a relatively new relationship my boyfriend seems to have zero sex drive, I have tried all sorts of herbal so called remedies to no avail. My boyfriend however will not talk about it and it upsets me! I do know that he would be mortified if I strayed and to be honest like you do not want to! He is the best lover I have ever had and I only want him! I cant imagine how you felt when your hubby told you to stray as I think this would upset me even more! I have been trying to ask my boyfriend to go to the doctors but have not had the courage! Would your husband go? Would he ask for help? I wouldnt think having affairs would help to be honest as you have to be honest to yourself and your husband has to stop being selfish! Good Luck honey and Ill keep an eye out for your progress!