Never want sex - after 1st time?

Hey ,
Is their something wrong with me , i ad sex with my BF , waited long time for it to be with right person etc but it was such a dissapointment!.

It hurt like hell ( which didn't stop) so it was always done with me just laying their in pain/ board out my brains - this soon stopped as did the relationship a few months after as i couldnt be done with him mopein about so at the time i just thought what a waste of waiting all this time for something that was so sh*t ... but now am starting to worry!.

Its been a year since my 1st sexual partner and i have no sexual interested at all , i had more when i was a virgin but now whenever i think of sex i remember everything and then my drive is gone - now it never comes up!.

I also spent months always panicin about being pregnant ( even though we used protection) so its so nice knowing am 100% NOT pregnant ... so all this together its so much easier to not have sex -right?.

But then when i meet people i start to like i have to change it and make sure we are just friends so i don't feel i get myself into the position of having to turn them down then loose a friend ... ahh thoughts plz!!!

Sex is a good thing when u...

do not be dissapointed...
sex is an exelent thing if u doing with the right person
and if u doing it right.
yes there is a way to do it wrong.
first find some one u care about.
second u need the mood, good foreplay and the rest will follow.
about the paiun the first time is always painful but as u continu it will be less painful and u will start to enjoy it have fun...

Yep , sex is for makin babies

Now don't get me wrong, I am not some religious nutter.But no matter how you try, no contraception is 100%..so unless you want to risk getting rid of a baby , or keeping it, with a man as anoptional extra? Any woman who doesn't think about this is either a tart or way too drunk. So basically, I should get yourself a litle buzzy friend and go out to enjoy life adn maybe meet a nice man who deserves you taking the risk.
Best of British!
H