Why
Are you with someone that you love and care about and that loves you back?
I think 13 is very young to be losing your virginity but only you can decide. Maybe it would be better just to experiment by yourself at the moment before having sex. Or if u have a partner maybe just pleasure each other without having sex. If u decide to have sex, please be careful and use proper protection from sti's and pregnancy. Just remember you only have 1 first time and you want it to be special. I know many people who lost theirs young like you, with the 1st bloke that showed an interest, they regret it now and will for the rest of their life. I was 16 myself and with someone I really loved and he loved me, we may not be together now but we were together 7 years and I will never regret it..
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HHEEEELLLLPPPP!!!!!! 
