Couple questions...

me and my fiance have been together for nearly two years. he has a very high sex drive and can go for a good chunk of time but sometimes he has a problem getting over that hill and cumming, sometimes he can't. he doesnt masturbate but we do usually have sex atleast once a day. we dont use condoms either so there is lessoning of sensitivit from that. he didnt use to have this problem, why is there a problem now? also, is there any position with me on top that would stimulate him enough to orgasm? there has only been once or twice that i have been able to get him to cum when im on top and that hasnt been in a while. he is also on the idea of a threesome. i think the idea is kinda hot and i know he doesnt or wouldnt go outside of our relationship but i also have the mind set of i dont want to share him. what is everyones outlook on the idea of threesomes? should i do it or should i wait? do you think if i do it that he will want to just do it more or maybe it will get it out of his system? btw it would be him and i and another girl. one last thing, he is quite big, like 9in and sometimes in certain positions i have to push him back or pull my hips back because although it feels good it does hurt at the same time. hes been into pushing farther into me because he wants me to take all of him and get used to him, can doing this cause any damage up there or is it something that will kinda just stretch out if i let him do that?

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I agree with mumzie...

I'd give the threesome a miss, sure he wants it to be girl and girl! sounds like he's trying to make you feel boring for not wanting to spice things up but as mumzie said it will mess with your head, and if he does come quicker I think you would keep questioning yourself, not worth the hastle. There is plenty of stuff on the market to be testing without having to get another girl involved... good luck

Take it in turns

People are obsesed about cumming together..why? Take it in turns its much more fun! Let him in you and then finish him off any way it works.Get some toys too..be grateful he can stay hard for you..praise him for not having the other problem. Don't be obsessed about one way he can't come..find lots of ways he can!its v unsexy and the fun goes if you get stressed about it.its not your responsibility..don't let the blame spoil things..tell him to experiment instead..everyone is different and you can get too used - to the same old ways.
No way with the threesomes..is he trying to make you feel even more inadequate? imagine if he does hit the volcano with you and her (will it be her..better than you..no it will be the situation..but it will mess with your head) you 'll be knocked sideways.They almost all dream of getting others involved..ask him if you can have another man as well ...first (jokingly) - see how he likes that....oh and ask him to do gay sex with him to turn you on..only fair hahaha..that turns my guy right of the idea.(sneaky)
My man is a whopper too. Don't let him rush you..take it slowly..if it hurts you won't relax..we are very stretchy if happy,if not you will bruise inside - not serious..but blame him & say no for a few days! you need to be in charge..ask him to lay back.. facing him is best for this with you on top..Tell him not to move..he needs to make you happy first, get yourself prepared.If it hurts , let him know loudly..and be cross..he'll go soft, it will teach him what he can and can't do.Take control honey!
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Not together but at all

its not that we are focusing on cumming together, thats not the problem he can get me to orgasm many times during sex, its that he cant finish. its like he can get to the top of the hill but not over it. as for the threesome thing, man we kinda got into it about that last night! hes already made it very clear only a girl girl guy not guy guy girl. he says its just sex so whats the problem in spicing up our sex life. i mean we've done role playing and hand cuffs and stuff but any ideas on ways i can spice it up and keep him interested without bringing another person into it. he says that he gets bored easy and i mean the idea is kinda hot but when he keeps pushing it so much it makes me wanna be like no, ya know what i maen. i mean if it happens fine but dont constantly push it!

Do the prostate push

Finishing off with a ... and a push on his prostate would have him away. i manage it externally as mine doesn't like it up the bum. Don't fall for the " I need more from sex so i need another girl "as I recon he is holding back trying to convince you.. give his prostate a push..he can't pretend then!don't so anything unless you want it for you.
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