Expressionless sex-mature responces only please!
This is a sensitive subject, ofcourse, so I am requesting only experienced, mature individuals respond.
I am a sexually experienced 28 year old woman, in a long term relationship that offers the most sexual gratification I've ever had.
I am also contemplating sex therapy for myself, but want to explore other solutions and suggestions first.
I believe that because of my intense non-sexual abuse, and innappropriate sexual exposure as a child, I'm having a significant issue with expressing my own physical pleasure. I'm so nervous about looking stupid, or sounding dumb, even masturbation is a silent affair. I may be having trouble seeing myself as "grown up" enough, and when I dress in sexy ways, it feels like "pretend". I've tried to take advantage of this opportunity to be less self conscious, but it never lasts very long.
The man I'm with is a sensitve, caring, and VERY capable lover, and he is very physically satisfied with myself and him. But I've noticed my lack of expression and encouragement are more frequently holding things up a bit. I'd like to resolve this issue before it permanently damages our relationship. I want to be fair to him, and so far it's not. He puts in alot of effort, and I try very hard to reciprocate, but i can't seem to get comfortable enough-It could be a trust issue, as well. I compensate by giving him fantastic and legnthy blojobs at every opportunity, and make effort to dress and maintain my physical appeal. So as you can see, this is a deceptively simple issue.
Does anyone have any suggestions how I can open myself to be less guarded during intercourse?
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