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The three minute man

right ladies i have a problem that is really getting me down.

me and my boyfriend have been on and off for a year and having just got back together...again...everything is going really well this time.

anyways, my problem is the sex, he cant last more than three minutes.
before we got back together he slept with two other girls, one of them being a "girlfriend", and having a chat with this girl about the sex she told me that he went for ages, this has got me thinking now that its me?
he is a sensitive one and tiny things will upset his self esteem and confidence.
he isnt the most sexual of beings, so im always the one to initiate sex which means i dont get much foreplay on my side.

what can i do to make him want me more, to initiate sex and to, ultimately, last longer?

thanks for the help in advance
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Hope this helps

hiya

iv also used to have that issue wiv my bf when we first started having sex and he got REALLY embarressed about it, he didnt even like talking about it to me but we found the more we had sex the longer he seemed to last.
also maybe he should think about getting tested if that isnt the issue.

btw you shouldnt have to make him want you more if he really loves you trust me you dont have to change a thing

hope this helps

xxx

Checking in

just checking in once again

"the three minute man

just checking in to see how things have been going and if you talked to your partner about the problem.

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once again checking in to see how things are going you still haven't responded hope this means you and you r partner are working on the problem.

The three minute man

have you talked to your BF about the problem, and what have you done to deal with it have you used any of the techniques I have given you.

The three minute man

why don't you look at it this way your vagina is probably so pleasing to him that he can't help but orgasim quickley. maybe you should prolong your foreplay to the point where you are ready to burst then have intercourse or tell him how you feel because it is obvious that he can last long so maybe because you are not saying anything he thinks it okay. Don't be afraid to open the lines of communication.



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