He won't do foreplay!!

Ok, When me and my boyfriend frist started dating, we we're both virgins and I was only aware of the basics (Penis goes in, finishes, comes out, and STDS). So when we started having sex, I didn't make him do foreplay, cause I didn't get that part. But now I understand, being lot more informed than I was. But now, 3 years on, I still can't get foreplay everytime. If i nag him I'll get it once, but he rushes through it. Now, he lasts forever, as long as I want, but the sex just seems boring.

What can I do?

He won't do foreplay

have a talk with him so that he understands how important, foreplay is to a womens body, And maybe you could teach him the things you like or take the initiative. Men can just go for the in and out and not realixe that in order for us to enjoy the sex there need to be some fondling and such to make us relax. It is worth having a talk with him that is the only way things are going to get better.

Dear 101mystic

Men fail to understand how important foreplay is for a woman, sometimes more than "in and out", as you put it. You demand it and he doesnt give it to you, I think its time for a talk. Sit with him and explain to him that he denies you and himself one of the greatest intimate pleasures. Of course you are bored, you sound like a couple after 20 yrs of marriage! Do something kinky, play, enjoy being young!!! and talk to him, asap!