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Can't have sex due to constant vaginal sores!!!

I have been with my boyfriend for six months now. When we started having sex, it was great! We were so into it, we'd have sex about twice a week.

After December, I started getting terrible sores inside me. It's so painful, it became unbearable to have sex. I went to my gynecologist, and she diagnosed me for Bacterial Vaginosis. She gave me pills, and after the pills I was feeling better. Sex was back to normal.

A week after having sex, I was back on the major pain in my abdomen. Sex was unbearable once again! I went to a gynecologist near my college, and she checked me for STD's. I came out clean and she told me I had a mild case of bacterial vaginosis. But she told me to leave it alone, and keep cleansing my area with warm water. Of course THAT did NOT work!

Now my boyfriend and myself were frustrated! I went back home for the weekend , and made a new appointment with a new gynecologist. She, once again, diagnosed me with a yeast infection. She gave me medication, told me to use only water-based lubes, and once again after all that sex was accomplished. A week after the sex, it was back to the same old pain! Sex feels like a needle scraping on the walls of my vagina!!!!

I want my normal sex-life back!! I have been so depressed over this, and I don't know what to do!! I'm calling my original gynecologist and I'm going to tell her what's goin' on. But this has been happening for three months now, and I am getting extremely agitated!

What should I do?? Has anyone gone through this before??

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Bum love

i used to get ... sores all the time then my boyfriend started doing me up the but and now they've healed. i also save money on johno's.

Can't have sex due to constant vaginal sores!!!"

Maybe they should test you to see if you are allergic to your boyfriends sperm this could be a factor, and could be why the medications you are taking for the other problems they diagnose you with only work for a short time. but the main problem keeps coming back.

Sperm allergies

have you looked into getting tested for possibly being allergic to his sperm.

Can't have sex due to constant vaginal sores!!!""

Glad you got it all figured out.

Its okay

Ive been going thru this type of frustration for 3years now and have seen doctors and gyncologists but they usually tell me i have BV or Thrush... Unfortunetly they havent found out whats wrong with me yet =(
Usually cleaning inside with a cotton bud and use fem fresh calms down most of the symptoms but stay away from fragranced soaps try using fem fresh and try not to use lubricants.
These types of problems are more common then you think ask the gyncologist for a coloposcopy as it will determine any infections inside ur cervix and womb
Hope i was able to help hun
xx

Okay

thanks for the tips, babyaj. I was told by one of my gynecologists to use KY Silk.. which I haven't picked up yet. She told me to use lubes cause that will stop the dry friction.

Anyways, I will ask for a colopsocopy. And I will look into allergies, as well.

Omg

hi there..i had this problem to....when its bad..we have to use latex free condoms..and ky silk..lol

good luck hun



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