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Using a man for sex or naked entertainment

Ladies - I offer a house calling service providing whatever women want from nude housework to massage to oral sex - but this is not an advert so much as a discussion question. I am keen to know how you feel about 'booking' a man for your entertainment, knowing that he will do pretty much anything you want, including e.g. oral sex for as long and as often as YOU decide.

Does the idea seem like a dream come true, does it disgust you, or does it just sound silly? Would you care if other people knew, or would you need to keep it a secret?

What about the practical issues - would you need to fancy him, or would you be more interested in his ability to provide decent company and conversation as well as seeing to your physical wants? What would it take for you to feel safe inviting him into your home for the first time?

For the record, I get booked around once every 2-3 weeks on average, I am no Chippendale (though not a gargoyle either) and I provide my services completely free. I have been made to do everything from strict no touching nude housework to masturbating for a group of friends to full on sex and even walking naked in the street (not that I'd want to do that one again!)

I chat to all sorts of women on chat sites and get a variety of views but am fascinated to ask a wider audience to get a bigger picture. For instance, is there a regional divide? Even though I live in the West of England - a very high proportion of my 'bookings' are actually in South Wales.

All serious comments welcomed and I look forward to some interesting discussion on the topic!

Steve

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Erm...wouldnt be something I'd find nice.
Maybe its a good thing for women who cant quite get to grips with dating...& possibly enjoy being in charge & ordering men about?
Kind of a dominatrix type thing...
Personally - I'd much prefer the company of someone I have got to know & an equal to...and feel the same
But for lonely women I dont see why its a problem... if there are things available like that - then why not take the oppertunity

p.s. y would you do this for free?

Somebody smell bull s**t

He wont admit he charges, that would make him a male prostitute

Why don't i charge

I don't charge for exactly the reason you say granny801 - it would be prostitution, and not only is it illegal, but it is not very attractive.

Additionally, I am no Chippendale these days - I used to strip part time when I was younger and had the body, but nowadays if I wanted to compete for cash there are plenty of younger better looking men!

Also, bear in mind I don't just offer sex, a lot of women like someone who can simply provide a bit of company and decent conversation, others want a giggle, and of course some want sex - its a fascinating combination and hence my question which does seem to have raised some interest!

Its your life

well if your doing for some kind of a sex life, i hope your careful and i hope your not in a relationship. If your happy with it and the women are, there's no harm done. Personally i wouldn't touch you with a barge pole. The thought of where you've been puts me right off!

LOL
im with you Granny

Thanks

Well, perhaps not the most flattering responses, but at least you took the trouble to comment, so thanks for that!



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